I like what Hunny suggested...I too struggle with this too have three children and they were in elementary school when I was dxed...However there getting older and things actually do get harder sometimes, however I find that what helps me well not so much as when at there younger ages was I was able to watch cartoons with my kids and color with them in there coloring books...make fun lunches what not..sometimes just getting on there level helps the younger alters get a little out too, and it relaxes you as long as you can remain co-conscious and be safe, and the kids are getting mommy time and they are having fun and no one is in distress? Not sure if any of that helps really? Safe hugs