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Originally Posted by kalisha36
Wow,
First hi Storm...
You do have allot to deal with, and I betcha that Dawn is very fortunate to have you! Okay how would you get that down time? Does the husband know about the possibility of cancer....I am so sorry to hear that might even be in the future? That is terribly to even contemplate. I understand kids are so demanding, however some times we just have to realize no matter what they will just be themselves and it's not a personal reflection on what kind of parent we are. I know I think I remember from a post I read that there can be guilt when we have been away from our kids do to "issues" or what not but kids are resilient so we just need to luv them and keep letting them know we luv them and hopefully there father can help out? Hmm the husband giving her a bad time? This is difficult. I understand not being able to say who you are. Others in our system have been in this position before? I wish I had the perfect answer... Dunno...I care though...SOUNDS horribly overwhelming and stressful...I can see why this is hard for Dawn and why your trying to help.. I know someone here will come up with some great to help...Just wish I could help more...
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You are helping, I promise. Her hubby knows yet they do not have insurance and cannot afford for her to go have a mammogram. Since she is not "sick", it is not that big of a concern I think. He just not get her/us nor does he want to. He is happiest when we stay just Dawn.