Tomi,
Thank you for posting this. I've read this before. I have so much trouble with it because my child only knows pain. My adult knows, accepts, and gives love freely. But my child doesn't know how to play, or how to love or be loved. I'm working on this, but it's a long process. Even my T is getting frustrated...
bp
"When you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance."