((((((((((Elana)))))))))

I'm so sorry your mom treats you this way. My mom is the same, except she doesn't harp about money, instead about other things. Can you plan other things to do so that you don't have to spend a lot of time at home? I had to keep my mom from talking about certain things to me and it was easier if I set up a boundary and then kept it. Otherwise she had a belief that she could go back to talking about it again if she just tried hard enough.