Oh dear ... you had to use the term "Damaged Goods" didn't you? Now I have to respond. Rant Mode ON, then.
I understand your fears of rejection. However ... I suspect there are many guys who feel as I do - seeing someone engage in that sort of "damaged goods" thinking tends to make me feel very nurturing and very protective. I don't have any suggestions about how you would approach talking about SI, but I'm sure there are good prospects out there for you! Jexa, you are so much more than scars and an SI habit. Any guy worth your time will see that. The only thing to suck up is your own fear (a lesson I am s-l-o-w-l-y learning myself). Please don't let insecurities hold you back from finding happiness.
(((((jexa)))))
Rant Mode OFF.
(and best of luck to you)
Hello dating!