you are right I are dont care if we break up you dont need to poison your kids mind about me.Thats what my brother Is going through right now with his soon to be ex wife of seventeen years .Ok I not taking sides he got married when he was just seventeen and she was twenty three years of age and my brother was so crazy In love with her that he left us and got married which was the worst thing he could of did because she turn him against us and she was treating him like a child what ever she would want he jump and did it he now 34 .He should of have a backbone and not just jump and did what ever she say .he stop talking too us and he was hating us for no reason it was like she had a spell on him.He was working too jobs until he graduated from high school .He became a police officer and they started having kids .His older child Is seventeen years old and his second one 14 and his last child Is 11 .So anyways when they started having problems she would tell his kids that she dont like her husband and dont like us .She even turn the kids hating my mom for no reason she not right for this .Because if she have an issue with us then she should of talk to us instead of telling her kids lies on us .She act like she a victim she the one at cheated on my brother and she really crazy she want to mess up my brother life by calling the cops and saying he choke him that was not true because we was over there visting them at that time .This very stressful cause we love the kids and they tolds us straight to our faces that they hate us .