It amazes me what people do and how they think and act when it comes to children. Divorce is a terrible thing and everyone's involved in it. This may not be true across the board but most kids blame themselves for the divorce and may never get over it even though it's clearly not their fault. I'm not a parent yet but I can't imagine having the kids going back and forth every week/weekend with their parents separately and as an adult I'd have trouble letting them go for that time away with the other parent. The kids are always in the middle of it. I hear all sorts of stuff from a lot of people who have been through divorce and it makes you not want to get married or have children, but it angers me even more when I hear how the children and/or their visitation is a burden because of more important things. I feel sorry for the children and the person who has to still deal with the other parent who was the reason for the divorce - not the person who filed, but the person who failed.