Thanks everyone. I told him I didn't want him to buy him anything and he didn't. His mom did but he didn't spend any money on him, thankfully. I told him this kid needs a good old fashioned beat down lol. I think thats a good way to weed selfish people out. Like my boss got married this past July. Him and his wife donated a lot of money to the humane society in lieu of buying everyone gifts. They just placed a card at everyone's seat saying they had donated in their names. I thought it was a pretty cool idea and love the thought of donating to an animal shelter. But some people were complaining that they didn't get anything.

I am glad that my bf didn't think it was okay to do that. If he would have thought it was perfectly fine that would have been a big red flag.