Gay men have long thought me one, too. I recall the first gay pass. I was at work in a secluded room and one of my co-workers simply came up to me and whispered in my ear " I want to **** your ****" Whoa! What a shock that was! He ended up being a great friend and roommate. Sadly, this was in San Francisco in the early 70's bath house glory days. My friend has long ago died of AIDS.

What's the point? You can be pretty blunt, and it may work out. Or it may not. It is probably best to be mighty careful. There are a lot of gay bashers out there!

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