We were away for the middle of December and I got cards and gifts out before I left (the 5th) so I don't feel very stressed but kind of miss something. I only have one stupid gift for DH and we don't do a tree anyway as we don't have space and have two cats

I discussed the lack of even presents around and DH said it was good we weren't spending money but I'd like some sort of acknowledgment. We're probably going to my stepsister's for dinner Christmas Day and the day after we go up to DH's brother's house with other family members so I'll have parties enough and not have to do any work toward them.

But I still feel a bit sad.