I agree with Omers, sounds like there's some sort of disconnect with what your therapist is thinking/trying to say and what you are. How do you want to be "helped" by therapy? It isn't good to hold on to something (marriage/family) if it is bad for you, personally, in the long run just because it is all you have known. There's lots of good things out there in the world that could be better than what you think you have.