I'm 38 and have dated a bit. (was married and had kids too). What I see here us a man that thought you're a hottie and acted like a man will. He used you. What's more, he acted like it never happened- cutting you off! He's clearly saying he doesn't want any more than you had. He found a hottie, had sex and now is all but giving you the cold shoulder. Even if he started a relationship wuth you, he's a cheater and would cheat on you too.