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Originally Posted by whatlight
My T whom I trusted deeply for several years (mostly in couples therapy) told me that I would never like myself enough to leave my husband. Does anyone else think that this is some sort of violation? Do you think he ever had any intention of helping me? 
I'm glad I'm still in my marriage  , despite it's pitfalls and struggles. My family is the most important thing to me, and I know that maybe I sacrifice myself too much sometimes, but in the big picture, it's what makes me happiest. |
It feels really horrible when someone you trust comes out with something like that. Then you're stuck with it till you can bring it up again.
No-one eccept you should judge your marriage. People break up so easily these days. I did, and with what I know now, I regret it deeply. Altho, I didnt know then what I know now, so staying would have been difficult too.
You go with your heart. Its an odd comment, and I'd be hurt too, but until you find out....... ~~~ who knows?
(ps, like the name 'whatlight' ~ as in.... at the end of the tunnel?)