In my experience, change is fluid and dynamic. We do not live in a vacuum or live "linear" lives.

And just as I think I have a grasp on what has changed, it morphs in to something new.

Change is like love. Just as I cannot force love, I also cannot force change. It either Is or it Isn't......and it seems that as soon as I take my attention away from "making changes" they happen anyway. Good ones and bad ones

I have also found that the greatest internal change happens......when I forgive.

Michah