If you honestly feel posting is harmful to you, then that is okay.... Just know that chastisement doesn't mean we don't want to hear from you--we just want to help you think differently about yourself, because we want to help you as you work toward becoming the beautiful person you are meant to. If you choose not to post and you need us, you'll deny us the chance of helping you, and helping you forces us to reflect on our struggles and remember how to help ourselves, as well.