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Dec 20, 2010, 01:13 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2010
Location: VA
Posts: 190
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Originally Posted by delta7777
Has anyone ever experienced a chemical induction of manic from Zoloft? Can anyone explain this?
My wife has been one of the most loving women I have ever known. She is highly respected by all that have ever met her. She has always told the truth no matter what. She is a Loving mother and wife. She always looked down on cheating on your spouse and perverted activity.
She started taking Zoloft for anxiety from the children around September. She had always drank a glass of wine and smoked at night. After a month or two on Zoloft she increased the amount of wine or beer now to as much as a bottle of wine in one night. She began to spend a lot of time on our back porch drinking and smoking while texting friends or calling them. She also started wanting to go out to bars a lot more and partying. October she spent a lot of time away from home drinking with Friends and at the end of the month she stayed out until 6 AM at the guy's house that she had an affair with me and told me it was the best night of her life. The next week she told me she did not think she loved me and she felt good when other guy's told her she looked good. The next 3 weeks she went out late and could not understand why I was mad. I confronted her about her lover and she denied it. Even after proof of affair she still denied it until I told her details. The affair lasted about 2 months and she had trouble ending it. We got help from a psychologist but She refused to tell the psychologist the truth about anything. We met with her 3 times and it did very little good. She is very convincing that she is OK. She wants to go out and party as much as possible, staying out to 2AM two nights this last weekend. Just this week she started talking to and riding around drinking with a new guy, even telling him in email that she already missed him. This behavior is SO FREAKING OUT OF characteristic it is not even funny. She has also quit contributing to the financial side of our marriage and has been spending money like crazy. She never bought cloths before and now she is overflowing with designer cloths and make up.
The main things that have been out of character are as follows.
Tex ting sexual text to lover with nude photo's
Physically cheating on me
LYING about EVERYTHING possible
Spending massive amounts of money
Shorter temper with children and me
Depressed even in good times
Intense sexual intercourse with me(admitted she was thinking of lover during sex)
Complete disconnect from what people will think about affair
Drinking more than normal
Wanting to go out any chance she gets
Wanting attention from other males
No ability to cry or show emotion about sad things
No remorse for hurtful things she has done
Sometimes sleeps more than normal
Will not seek counsel from family and friends
Acts perfect in front of everyone except me
Very sexually motivated
I know that there is something wrong with my wife. My motivation in this letter is not to win her back as my wife but to help her for my children’s sake. They need a stable mother and I feel that she needs help with her mental state. We are in the process of divorce and I need to figure out what is wrong before I make decisions on custody rights that I will seek.
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I am sorry for what your going through. It seems to me you really love your wife. She does seem Manic. I would try to get her to see a psychiatrist. How are your children doing?
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