I know most of us probably get angry...like really angry when we see someone react like that.I would like to say though, as hard as it is for you to b depressed....sometimes it's even harder for those around you. They are completely powerless...they can do NOTHING...to change you..or change your thinking or feelings...that must be really frustrating for the people around us. Most of them do not know that we can't help it...so to them...it's almost like..well "she must be doing this just to ruin my life...she must want to be miserable". I'm sure you can imagine how that must feel..i mean if you didn't know...you might think that way. With all that being said..i am not without sympathy...for better or worse...in sickness and in health...those were his vows...and if he can cast them aside...without offering to do what he can to help..and just give up...then your probably better off without him. It would be nice though..if he was willing to try couples counciling..i mean the doctor could possibly explain a litter more whats going on with you...and could also help him deal with his feelings...too.