I was dx less than two years ago and haven't had any exposure to the stigma, so I'm not as sensitive to it yet. I'm sorry that this is bothering you so much bpd2. That being said, I guess I'm kind of getting over the fact that this is a public site and anyone can read here. I don't like to think that I'm being analyzed from afar, but as long as they don't post or ask questions, I can ignore it at this point. I'm sure that will change with time.