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Until I find a man who actually knows what he's doing.

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You can't expect someone to know what you like. Sometimes you find someone who happens to "do it" the way you like, but that doesn't make him more skilled than another, except in that he may have more experience and discovered what pleases most women (in his experience). Different women like different things. Same with men. You have to show him what you like, tell him (nicely) what you don't like.