It feels really horrible when someone you trust comes out with something like that. Then you're stuck with it till you can bring it up again.
No-one eccept you should judge your marriage. People break up so easily these days. I did, and with what I know now, I regret it deeply. Altho, I didnt know then what I know now, so staying would have been difficult too.
You go with your heart. Its an odd comment, and I'd be hurt too, but until you find out....... ~~~ who knows?

(ps, like the name 'whatlight' ~ as in.... at the end of the tunnel?)