what he's doing with sexual partners isn't your problem, jennie. and of course that is horrifying, but it's not your load to bear. it's his. he's irresponsible and a twit. so is my brother. i have told him what i think of his values (he has none) and we have no contact. other than him tearing down my property and destroying all of my treasures this year. i'm going to take action on that one. i'm suing him.

please don't guilt yourself out about this. i was run out of a lumber store because my last name is the same as his. i was mortified and then when i thought about it....the pain eased. it's his reputation, not mine. i did the guilt thing. and it didn't help one thing.
love, pat