Waiting isn't much fun but I have found that I don't have to stay stuck while waiting. Sometimes I had even used the waiting for an excuse not to figure out the problem hoping that others would come up with the solutions for me but what it boiled down to is there are ways to work on things that can help clear things up a littile such as journaling, drawing, writing a list of pro's and cons, relaxation type activities, taking your feelings out on clay and playdough so that the emotions arent clouding the problem so you can see it clearer.. There is so much that can be done during the waiting and I found out alot of times with therapy professionals they use the waiting technique to give the person time to try and work things out by themselves which in turn adds to their self worth and self esteme. Nothing to lose by trying right.