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Originally Posted by granite1
i have been having a hard time at work lately .i dont talk much thare eithe just as little as i need i just get freaked out easily.anyway they want me to take over the dept i am working in and i am scared and dont want to but wont tell them no and they finely asked me if i had a problem with doing this and all i could do was shrug my sholders.it is a big problem.
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Hey Granite, why don't you go with your strengths here... and one of the biggest strengths I see in you in being able to express in writing the things you cannot say in words. Do you think you could muster up the courage to write a letter to the people that want you to take over the department? It doesn't have to say much... something like "I appreciate you considering me for taking over the running of the department, however I have to decline the offer at this time due to personal reasons." You do not have to expand upon the personal reasons at all.
It may cause them inconvenience, especially if they do not have anyone else to take over the job, but as business people it is their job to take care of that. I hope you can find a way to decline the position and extra repsonsibility... if you can't cope with the extra load right now you can't cope with the extra load, and that is that. Take care of yourself.