((((Zoo)))) You can ask your T, but I sense your T is going to be there with you for the rest of your life - as long as you "WANT" 'or' "need" her ;-)
My T and I talked about this topic and he said that some people who have abuse just have to have a lifetime T. He has one. And it looks like he will be mine.
That means we walk together closely while we are being healed. And we learn our skills - and they are there. And then we may not NEED to be around them for months at a time on down the line, but they did not "go" anywhere. They ARE the rock we were denied. They can be that for us - for keeps.
Ask your T about that and see what your T says ;-)
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