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Old Dec 22, 2010, 11:21 AM
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I don't know why you are trying to relocate, especially to a place so far away that doesn't seem to have people you are interested in or who are interested in you? If you can't afford to go find a place, why would you be able to afford to live there? I would save some money up for visiting, stay in a hotel. We can't know what issues others may have; if we have issues with them, they might have issues with us too, it works both ways. Maybe they hate having anybody stay in their space, I wouldn't take it personally. That they don't like the other group is neither here nor there for you, just "interesting" and should give you pause about associating and jumping into that place to begin with. Who wants to go where there are family factions and discord? Whatever you are doing in your life, do it "yourself" don't depend on others to make what you want happen.
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