I'm pretty glad too. xD Hopefully I'll be able to learn better coping skills and be able to sort some things out in my head...

I already avoid her as much as possible, it's a lot harder when she plans an entire weekend for me, my sister and my cousins. And yeah, me and my cousins do talk about it together. I definitely get upset when they're upset. I don't know anyone being treated unfairly, especially when they're close to me. I have the hardest time when my sister isn't being treated right though, because she rarely is by any family. It's just wrong, and no one feels like correcting the issue or even seeing what they're doing.

On top of that, I'm very attached to my mother and sister, and Grandma will talk about how awful my mom is and how my mom can't do anything herself. Basically this own woman has no faith in her own daughter, and thus butts in all the time. However my mom accepts it, because sometimes she does need help and she isn't going to turn down any help she can get.