well he was driving up and down my street every so often during his one hour a day that he's allowed to leave his apartment,and he activated his facebook account and was on my friends list from a long time ago..i did not see him driving but my brother who goes outside to smoke has a few times...so my brother went to his contacts on the street ,and my ex was warned from 3 people(big guys) to drive a different way..i told my brother i do not want any more violence even towards him,,it will only cause more trouble but ,he has not driven by since..and my face book account,i blocked him..then transfered all the people i trust to a new account,then deactivated the old one..trial Jan.6..i am feeling more confident but am suffering PTSD from the incident on top of the trauma from my childhood,but the childhood ones have calmed for now..yesterday was very hard with severe burning around my neck and mental anguish,but today i am doing well,,it has started to flare up from reading my threads but i needed to know how far i have come..again ty for all your help