i wouldn't be me, i wouldn't know what i know, have the skills i have, the perspective, the friends, the life, the compassion, without all the things that have happened to me, that i would NEVER volunteer for.... so don't look for me in that line~! i'm climbing the mountain in front of me, and the view behind me is just astonishing~!! best wishes to you all, finding the easy solution~!!! Gus