aaah, Elysium,, i see you ~! i know you have Many Many friends on PC, and some of us are talking about starting a Chat Group for Pagans of all sorts... i hope you will keep an eye peeled and join with us. Sadly, life is not about making other people do what we want them to, as your mother is also finding out,,,, but it's about learning how to do what WE want to do,, as you are proving~! keep looking in the mirror, there is ONE person who always sees you ~~~ Best Wishes,,, Gus