That Dateline episode didn't convince her. She was the scapegoat of the family. Upon observation, her motto could be, you've got to take it to make it. She's the only one married to her first husband, she does deserve better but she won't allow help, so I help her in anyway I can. I just think of her and send good thoughts or hug her when I can. Oh and I linked her computer so that when he accesses sites like that, the comupter shuts down. Told my sister if the computer shuts down to call me and I can hook her back up. That way I can help protect her computer and probably talk to her more (sadly to say). Some of those viruses are dangerous.
I can't belive how much you all have helped in lifting this depression. Being in the dark pit, well, I guess I don't need to tell you all, you have been there. Oh, and yes, I was premenstral (I actually can't wait to hit menopause).
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