(((((((Zoo)))))))))

That must be so hard. I am so sorry. I'm glad that you are taking care of yourself. You can only do what you feel comfortable doing and that is enough. Sometimes others want more than we can give, but that doesn't mean we can or should provide what they want. Also remember that you are not her only source of support, she has T and group T also if she needs support, they are trained to deal with this type of stuff. I am so glad you are taking care of you. And that you are okay.