Thank you for the continued responses.

We have not always been like this. I would not have gone ahead and married him if we were having trouble before we got married. We have started seeing a theripist and so far so good. He has started to talk some on these topics that in the past he just wouldn't talk about. As long as I am seeing effort to make things better then I will be content. Even though I know that divorce is a very common occurance I do not want to get divorced ever. Yes these are problems that some people get divorced over. I choose to work on my marriage and work with my husband to make our marriage what we both need. As long as both of us are willing to work on it than it will be worth every minute of therapy, tear and frustration.

Thanks again everyone
Angie