(((((((((((((Zoo)))))))))) I think the shutting down you did and not getting upset is VERY healthy for you!!!! You are not letting yourself get sucked into her drama. Sometimes it is hard for people to realize that it is not being unkind to give yourself emotional distance. It is just being wise and staying healthy. You have a RIGHT to your space and your time. You told her what you could do for her and you set your boundaries. That was perfect!

Hope that you continue to have the holiday you deserve!