things you may already know but hearing from a different persons point of view...what's done is done, you can't change that...and as long as you made the effert to apologize or show with your actions that "the mistake" you did was a temporary fault and you are moving forward in a positive direction to never mimick that "mistake" again...than how everyone is reacting is their own sh&t they need to deal with.

Dn't be angry but don't just accept things a firm hand ..hey look this is what i did i can't go back , and this is what i'm doing so it never happens again, you can either accept it or not (in so many words) but i am moving on and i hope you do as well. say your emotions are vvalidated to (meaning you have every right to your own feeling) but people need to learn to quit dwelling, and they dwell on the negative oh too well.

I don't know what happened but i have made huge horrid horrible mistakes and i have had some very wise counsel on how to go about talking to people that i harmed intentionally or unintentionally (sp) you need to know never let anyone hold guilt over you...as long as you are aware of what you have done, made your apologies for what you have done and are moving on in the right direction than you are in the right, if whoever wants to stay in the past and be negative about it, well that's their problem not yours. there ain't no time machine
it's time to move on life is too short.
So don't get angry but unfortunately we do have to live with the consequences of our actions, but we don't have to have them be held over our head for the rest of our lives!