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Their only focus in life is getting what they want and they know that pretending to be a good person is an effective way to do that sometimes.


</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I agree with what Ben said. When these people aren't pretending, they are up to other tricks of the trade to get their way. IMO they are control freaks. When I finally recognize that someone is a control freak, I walk away because I think they can really hurt you.