suggestion - print off this thread and hand it to the therapist as the therapist comes into the area to bring you back into the office area. That way you are giving it too her BEFORE she says you look ok. Just by reading this thread whe will see that statement has caused you broblems and the thread will also open the door for telling her how you feel without feeling like you are being judged. I share my threads and posts with my therapist no matter what they are and it has lead to alot of interesting conversations and has added to my problem solving skills.