I think my cat is buddist, too.
I'm lost in Congo. Didn't know millions were dying. Sorry to hear that.

Who's Jar Jar?

Ask the stylist what kind of cut would be best for your face. What looks good on a celebrity or model isn't neccessarily going to look good on you. I'd look very stupid in a Jennifer Aniston haircut but I liked it on her.

The "no ease of conversation" may have to do with your lack of comfort in the situation. I've learned that if you smile a lot, people respond better-regardless of how socially dysfunctional one may be.
Mingling is easier after you've had a cocktail.
If having a cocktail is not possible then sit down at a table and smile at everyone who passes by. Most will come sit with and start a conversation with you.
I hope you find your niche soon.
((((((Justaman))))))