Well I am a middle aged grandmother and I would be devastated with my granddaughter deciding to enter into that type of relationship. For a 33 year old to be into 17 year old makes me question his ability to have a mature relationship. The problem is men that can only respond to young girls is they don't grow out of that. So how much of a relationship can be expected with this person. Your virginity is a special thing that is of value and can not ever be had again once you give it away. Think long about this. You are a valuable person worthy of respect. For me, knowing anyone one month especially on a website is really knowing what they want you to believe about them. Men that prey on young women are partially motivated by the fact they have an upper hand psychologically. I have been in relationships with much older men so I know how they work. One day I was too old and the attention was on a younger girl. If you end up falling in love you can be really hurt. I am not even going into the idea that this person could be very abusive so your very life could be in danger. Well you wanted opinions so that is mine.....stick to men close to your own age where you are on a more equal footing. Hope all goes well with you.