dont feel strange about the Dom/sub thing, I'm into that to. I am submissive to. although, I want to switch sometimes and be Dom, it will take work since I am only been submissive in the past. this is normal I think,a lot of people are into BDSM, I was in a relationshiip like that for several months a couple years ago. It ended bad he was 26 years older than me, thought that would help the Dom part but it actually made it bad. so in all, you are normal for having this feelings, and my only thing is that you should wait for a while to become into a serious Dom/sub relationship since your only 17 now. from your post I dont think this man is right for you, but later, a Dom man could be right for you. Nothing wrong with that.

Good luck hon -

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