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If you would like a loving respectful and mature relationship with someone I would suggest seeing a therapist first before you start a relationship with anyone.
I’m going to quote something you said that sent up a red flag for me…” he even said i could still go to collage if i came to live with him”….
It’s not up to him…you don’t need his permission in anyway; you don’t need his OK to go to collage or not to go.
I feel you have to ask yourself “Do I want an unequal relationship that serves only their needs?
OR
Do I want a relationship where I could feel respected, loved and nourished?
Let’s just say you were in a healthy relationship with someone… you could still satisfy your desire for playing the submissive dominating thing in a healthy way by role playing in the bedroom.
But please do yourself a favour and don’t make your whole life a submissive slave like existence.
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