ok i could understand why that qoute would sound really bad, but i didnt mean it that way. im going to college regardless of what anyone says, i was just useing that as expample of how he wasnt completely evil, that he would want me to better myslef. im still not complelty sure weahter or not im going to countiue this or not. and i know the complete slave thing is unrealistic(cant stay homebound all the time) but im not saying that realtship, done right , cant be healthy. some people just have submissive personalities and would be better off with a domnainte person. you know