I always say family draws out the worst in you. Usually because they do not see what you have become but what you were....the little kid they remember you to be. My brother and I don't get along so well because he still sees me as the bratty little sister that always followed him around. They never see you as the person you ARE but as the person you WERE. And that is very irritating to the point you go back to being that earlier version of you!