OK, "old chick" here (33).... (LOL for all of us who have had h.s. reunions)...
Into dom, sub
been with a man 2X my age, his daughter is a month younger than me, he is 5 months older than my father.
So... I am by no means judgemental... however
Until you come of age it is illeagal and you are putting him at high risk of having the "registered sex offender" label thrown on him... So... If you really care... absolutely nothing before your B-day. Honestly, better safe than sorry, I would put all interactions on hold until after B-day.
second I have always known the person in the context of other relationships and real life experience... going this far this fast via internet/cell phone and getting this deeply drawn in does not feel safe to me.
Any kind of live in and or sexual relationship is VERY complex. When you say you hve never done anything like this before are you talking about being live-in? Sex? Dom-Sub? and/or internet? All of those add multiple layers of complexity.
Even with perhaps too much relationship experience I personally would not put myself in the position of being a "first timer" in any of those catigories along with it being an internet relationship.
Currently I am not in a relationship. When I was I was part of shall we say a very "liberal/open minded" sexual community that it was tight knit and protective. You could be sure that if someone showed any signs of truly being a preditor the "elders" of the community would boot them quick. It was safe to be new and learning as others "had your back". There is more safety in face to face and even more within a community.
Just thoughts