To be honest, of course I'm going to tell her! I wanted to be sure my thread related to therapy! What I really wonder is how important this is in why I am the way I am. You know, my attachment to my Ts and feeling of wanting my T to hold my hand so I will feel safe. I'm sure my relationship with my mother is more significant than one incident in my childhood, but it's intriguing how clearly my brother remembers his feelings from over 50 years ago!!