i had no idea that starting this thread would result in so many replies. thanks.

there have been many times, on here, when the same person comes on and repeats the problems that he/she has and then completely ignores the help that people take the time to offer. a great thing about this site is the IGNORE button. i find that i don't feel any stress when i see the poster's name. i genuinely wanted to help this poster and it was very, very stressful to see the same pattern over and over and over and over. now, i don't know what the problem is....i can't read the posts. the IGNORE button is a very powerful and comforting tool. xoxox pat