I feel ya! Let's put it this way: there's just a lot of people out there who are too close-minded, and caught up in their own lives to even register the effects of what they do and don't say can have on others! Those people who comment on when your weight is down obviously have their own self esteem issues and are too consumed with our societies obsession of being stick thin, especially if they have never been in your shoes, so to speak. Just try your best not to pay them any mind, their too wrapped up in themselves to really think before they speak.