I had a very bad job ending experience about 2 years ago. I was crushed, so very hurt thinking that my boss and I had been friends. I built this up in my head so much that I was convinced everyone in town knew all about it and was on her side. Driving past that work place made me sick to my stomach. The one time I ran into her, I couldn't even look at her. The whole thing got bigger and bigger in my head.

What has helped for me is time. I still don't want to talk to her or see her ever again. I am so hurt and angry. But I am now being a little more realistic about the far reaching consequences of all this. I give myself too much importance here; the people in town have better things to talk about- I am a legend in my own mind!