Not only is he trying to own you but it sounds like he is using emotional black mail by threatening to go home to 'mummy'. I'd say ok mate, I'll even help you pack. Its that awful feeling of insecurity when comments like that are made. I have vowed to myself that i will never ever be owned or 'blackmailed' again!! It made me feel a whole lot better about me, made me realise that i am stronger than i thought i was. It also made me realise i dont 'need' anyone, i just want to have some one in my life to share the silly and precious things with!! Good luck and chin up!! Huggles and smoochas to you!