I told my T about this incident today. She didn't seem to think it was that significant. I wish she had. What she did say was that when she uses the word "trauma" in regards to me, she doesn't necessarily mean abuse or terrible things happening. She just thinks something wasn't good for me in my early relationships with my mother and father, but it's not one incident. It's more subtle, but it was definitely something I missed, though she says not to blame my parents.