Thread: A Little Remark
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Old Dec 03, 2005, 12:56 AM
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Some men really feel insecure about their wife or g/f being attracted to the same sex, because they have not idea how to compete with that. But I also think that anyone should beable to voice their opinion about someone they feel is attractive. Maybe you could have mentioned it to him first! But if you are continually telling him about other people you think are hot or good looking, maybe he is feeling insecure. If it is a constant behavior you could understand that insecurity. But asking him if he is mad, you know he is, maybe you could ask him what you can do! I say you, but I mean you as a couple! I would ask him straight out, without being angry. "Why does it bother you so much if I say someone is attractive or pretty or handsome, or whatever"? If you talk about it calmly without sarcasism or anger, maybe the two of you will understand each other better and deal with this problem.
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